Toxic Charity — Robert Lupton

Robert Lupton’s *Toxic Charity* challenges traditional models of helping the poor by showing how well-intentioned acts of charity often create dependency rather than empowerment. He argues that many charitable programs reward the giver more than the recipient, reinforcing unhealthy cycles of expectation and entitlement. Lupton proposes an “Oath for Compassionate Service” that prioritizes listening, empowerment, and avoiding harm—guidelines meant to shift charity from handouts toward sustainable development.

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Lupton advocates for approaches that build community assets, leadership, and long-term capacity, such as micro-lending, local food banks, and community-run thrift stores. He stresses that true development requires patience, partnership, and respect for local leadership rather than quick fixes or short-term mission trips. His central message is clear: effective service helps people do for themselves, strengthens communities from within, and avoids the trap of dependency-producing charity.